The 10 Things Your Kids Don’t Want and the 10 Things Your Buyers Don’t Want. Learn what items, from large to small, the presenter has noted that most adult children do not want as their parents downsize or pass away. Your house, and what it contains, is a minefield in the eyes of your grown children. They want a clean, clear field in which to live their lives. Your grown children will not agree to be the recipients of your downsizing if it means their upsizing. Also, learn from a realtor what 10 things buyers don’t want and always complain about. This lecture will help you to know what small improvements you can make before you market your home.